"I'd no idea, actually." Not that he would have made the first move. He is what he is, and he won't ask someone to shoulder that. But Nate knows more than anyone else save Velanna. If all of Anders, including Justice, doesn't scare him off, nothing will.

He hums happily as Nate kisses down his throat. "I should... mm. I should tell you that I did sleep with him again." He works his hands inside Nate's shirt and then down his pants, just a little, encouraging the closeness. "I won't again, though."

It's not because he's worried that Nate will be upset that he's telling him. It's about honesty. Communicating. He wants this to go right so badly that he's not going to take the risk of Nate finding out later being a problem, and he can add the assurance that he's here for this.