Semantics. You know what I mean, and what I'm saying.

[He's deliberately simplifying when maybe he shouldn't have. But his point still stands, and he crosses his arms and tilts his head.]

You are one of us, no matter how much you don't seem to want to be. It's no choice. And if it's self-loathing that has you in hiding, perhaps you should considering wandering outside of Skyhold and punching yourself in the face a few times.