[It doesn't matter if she blames him or not, because Bruce is certainly blaming himself either way. There hadn't been a choice in the matter, but still--its still something he blames himself for. Times like these he wishes he didn't make the decision to come here, instead just staying low like what he originally planned. But here he was no a year later and perhaps in too deep with so many things here, for better or for worse.

He wishes he were a better person, though.]

It's why knowing every bit helps. [He moves past the first part, now - there's no resolution to that, and all they can do is to move on. Move on just as Bruce himself had to do eventually.] The more we know, the better prepared we can all be, and nothing like this can happen again.