"Well, he was a very hurt little boy - I've heard he's rather pro-circle." She sighed, softly, folding her hands over her knees, "Frankly, I can see both sides of this coin. If you don't want to be in a Circle, you shouldn't be. If you feel like you are a danger ... well. You are choosing it, not being forced. There's the difference there. Choice. Me, I don't know how I would have done in a Circle, but I know that there is a way to live without one. I've done it. Others can do it too."