"Then don't," he reassures her. "No one says you have to make up your mind on who you are right now." He offers her a bit of an encouraging smile. "And who you are might change from day to day. That's all right too."
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"Then don't," he reassures her. "No one says you have to make up your mind on who you are right now." He offers her a bit of an encouraging smile. "And who you are might change from day to day. That's all right too."