Best to leave that prodding for another day then, after all she does know the woman so little and this the longest they've talked without an audience but it's how she holds herself. Guards her tongue. Few Wardens have any practice at that. Few at all have reason to know it.

"You will forgive me if I find it hard to picture you the waif or urchin." Please consider most of the feckless idiots and their Tragic Backstories (TM).