"...Did you guys fool around first, or just fuck straight away? For me, the thing that makes me really enjoy myself and not get caught up in remembering what was done to me is drawing it out, enjoying everything beforehand," She eats some more meat and cheese, as if they're not talking about reclaiming control of their bodies after suffering abuse. "Coaxing little noises out of the other person, finding where best to put my mouth to make them hold their breath, what makes them shiver or gasp or say my name. All of that stuff is important, more than just put the dick in the hole."