Were people trying to help her settle in? Well, if she was blunt about it, no not really. She's sleeping in a barn and considered suspect just because she existed in a place she didn't belong, which isn't exactly the most welcoming. She's offended on principle but a part of her knows that people are right to be wary of her. It's hard to really hold it against them when she knows she's the definition of what they're afraid of. "It seems like everybody around here has more important things on their mind." Skyhold was a busy place, and for reasons deeper than just the Rifts.